Speaking
Talks that leave a room feeling steadier
Audiences don’t remember statistics. They remember the moment they recognized their own relationship in a story. I speak about ADHD, attachment, and what it really takes for two different brains to stay close — the way I write: clearly, warmly, and without the shame that usually surrounds this subject.

Signature Talks
Three talks,
tailored to your audience
01
When the Signals Get Crossed: ADHD and Attachment in Love
Why ordinary conversations turn into fights, what’s happening in the nervous system on both sides, and the reframe that changes everything for neurodiverse couples. Built for general and couple audiences.
02
The Layer Underneath the Cycle: ADHD-Informed EFT for Clinicians
For therapists and clinical audiences. How ADHD amplifies attachment distress, why certain EFT interventions stall, and how to adapt them so the work can land. Available as a CE-eligible session.
03
Both Truths Are Real: The Pain of Forgetting and the Pain of Being Forgotten
A talk on empathy across difference — for the ADHD partner, the non-ADHD partner, and everyone who loves someone whose brain works differently than theirs.
Talks can be tailored to your audience, time slot, and theme.
Formats
Ways to have Grazel
- Keynotes
- Breakout sessions and workshops
- Clinical trainings and CE presentations
- Panels and fireside conversations
- Podcast and media interviews
Why Organizers Book Grazel
Depth without the heaviness
She brings the rare combination of frontline clinical depth, a researcher’s respect for the evidence, and lived experience as the non-ADHD partner in a neurodiverse relationship. She has presented continuing-education trainings, appeared on relationship and therapy podcasts, and serves on the EFT Centre of Los Angeles training team. She speaks about hard things in a way that leaves rooms feeling steadier, not heavier.
Let’s Talk About Your Event
Request Grazel for your event
Tell me about your audience and what you’d like them to walk away with. I’ll come back with a fit, a format, and dates.